Today’s not the day for you to entertain overwhelm for more than a minute.
Go ahead; feel a little sorry for yourself and all the things you think you have to do RIGHT NOW.
Now, do the exact opposite of that.
That’s right. I mean it.
You might even leave the space you’re in now and go sit somewhere with a nice view.
Then, take a nice, deep breath, just like all the gurus urge. Do it a couple more times.
There, now, listen closely:
Good things will happen, are happening even now, just for you.
Maybe there are things happening in your life which are causing you distress.
That’s part of life. But I promise you this:
It won’t help you to push the panic button. All that does is make a tough situation worse.
That is why you can work on doing the opposite of what your distress dictates.
You can get quiet for a few moments and get some perspective.
You can slow time down like a supernatural zen ninja Buddha. The rest of the world can wait a minute.
While you’re sitting there breathing, you could do some other simple thing to ease your stress.
You could pray. Hum. Notice colors. Close your eyes. Listen. Write. Feel. Smile. Cry.
It’s ok. It really, really is. Even if you don’t feel ok and circumstances may not be ok now.
There’s an absolutely capable, totally powerful person there inside you, underneath the chaos of the moment, and NOTHING can change that. You have access to that part of yourself whenever you want or need.
Don’t beat yourself up about what you are or aren’t doing right. No one knows exactly what it’s like to be dealing with what you’re dealing with right now.
Please, just take excellent care of yourself, without guilt or hesitation. You are worth it, and others in your life will benefit from it, too. Sit a minute, and start breathing.
I love you.